I am now the proud co-owner of
Toothless.
No, not that one. This one.
I have finally, finally, gotten my
hands on a kitten. The last time there was a batch, I knew three
families with kittens but they were all claimed by other people. And
so when a cat had kittens I made it very apparently to the daughter
that I wanted one before they even opened their eyes.
Getting Toothless home was an
interesting trial. There are no cat carriers here. So I wrapped her
in a piece of an old curtain. Gotta protect myself from all four sets
of claws! Beti insisted on carrying her as a sorta goodbye from her
house to the school and Toothless was rather reluctant to leave her
for her classes. She wasn't so happy with me when I took her. I got
several stares as Toothless climbed up my chest to my shoulder and
then when I tried to bring her back to my chest found myself holding
her around the middle over my shoulder with her claws not detaching
from my shirt.
Poor kitty. It was a good twenty minute
walk through strange, cold territory and the rain did not help at
all.
I had a moment of panic when I stepped
into the compound. Originally I had been scheduled to take a calico
cat from Beti's family, but in the last week she's disappeared. So I
was given a black one and Dani freaked when she saw Toothless. She
wanted nothing to do with a black cat, saying she didn't like them.
People here can be very set in their
ways and while I don't want to say superstitious, do believe in
absurd things.
I was very worried Dani would tell me
to give Toothless back.
So I took Toothless into my pair of
rooms and made some lunch, eggs to share, and eventually Dani came in
to see more of Toothless's body then a head sticking out from the
curtain wrap.
As I'm pre-writing this, Toothless is
sleeping on the top of Dani's couch, so I think they'll get along
well despite first impressions. I'm glad. I'll be away for a while
to start the process of leaving (med appointments and trainings on
what needs to be done before I hop on the plane) and it will be good
for Dani to have some company.
I can't help but liken Toothless's
process of getting used to the compound to my similar one of getting
used to Huruta. There's the
oh-yes-the-traveling-is-over-let's-explore phase. Followed by
the pitiful mewlings that come with the
I'm-so-far-away-from-everyone-and-can't-talk-to-them-and-can't-stop-crying
phase. And then you turn all lethargic as you hit the
I'm-depressed-and-have-no-one-to-talk-to-and-don't-want-to-visit-this-new-world
phase. I spent a weekend laying on a couch or my bed with a book,
not talking to Dani and Tadeck at all. Toothless just sleeps
everywhere. Yes, she's a cat, but she was always more active at her
house when I was over.
Still, she'll get over it. I did.
It's kinda funny how the process works
in reverse too. The first three months are the hard because family
and friends are always on your mind. The last three months are hard
too because again you're thinking of your family and friends back
home (though with anticipation this time, but you still can't call to
bounce giddy beams off each other) and the ones you've adopted here
(and it's a million times harder than saying goodbye to your mom at
the airport cuz I knew I'd see her in 27 months but when will I ever
see Dani and everyone else here again?).
I can't wait to go home, yet at the
same time don't want to think about it because there's still much to
do here. I have camps I'm planning, a few more English club lessons,
and a trip to Harrar. I don't want to think of America, cuz then I
wouldn't really be here and I have to be for the next three
months. It's my last chance to experience it all, to commit things
to memory and try to describe perfectly the smell of rain as it fills
my house or to record the birds outside my window. And yet I have to
think of America cuz I gotta find a house for grad school before I
actually leave this country.
Nothing, apparently, is easy.
Unless you're Toothless because then
people just bring food and stoke your back all day. Ah, the life.